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You might have heard the term “emancipated minor,” before. It refers to someone who, while not legally an adult yet, is no longer under the custody of their parents for one reason or another.

And if you’re thinking things would have to get pretty extreme and horrible for that to happen, well, not necessarily.

Sometimes, it’s just kinda exploitative.

The teen in this story is thinking about requesting to be emancipated but isn’t sure if that’s the right move.

Let’s read the whole story.

two years ago my mom married my stepdad.

Both have kids of their own from before they met each other, my mom has 5 (including me) and my stepdad has 5 as well so when we all moved in together it went from me living with 4 other kids to 9 other kids.

I’m the oldest (16)

Her family spends her money.

I don’t want to give out too much info but I make money online.

I started out just doing it for fun for a little (before my mom married my stepdad) but it’s gotten bigger than just a fun hobby the problem is my mom and step dad both got involved and control all the money that I make.

They spend on bills, clothes for my siblings, groceries, and stuff like that but barely let me spend any of it.

I can’t save too much on my debit card.

The whole dynamic seems off.

Also It’s not just about money it’s also about them always making me babysit the other kids and sharing my things with them even though they don’t take care of things.

WIBTA to look into this?

It sounds like her parents aren’t treating her fairly.

Let’s see what the comments say on Reddit:

2025 05 09 14 40 30 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family2025 05 09 14 40 30 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family

You’ve just gotta approach it very carefully.

2025 05 09 14 40 45 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family2025 05 09 14 40 45 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family

There are some sad, sad stories that led to some unfortunately necessary laws.

2025 05 09 14 40 55 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family2025 05 09 14 40 55 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family

Remember that legal battles cost too.

2025 05 09 14 42 51 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family2025 05 09 14 42 51 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family

Maybe someone is more on your side?

2025 05 09 14 43 04 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family2025 05 09 14 43 04 Kid Is Doing Well For Themselves With An Online Hobby, But Theyre Not Happy About Sharing Their Money With The Rest Of The Family

Here’s hoping they find a solution to this problem.

If you liked that story, read this one about grandparents who set up a college fund for their grandkid because his parents won’t, but then his parents want to use the money to cover sibling’s medical expenses.

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